Thursday, June 17, 2010

We're off to Mauritius!

Thursday 17 June
I've been advised to set this up and it's a whole new world of technology and communication for me. At the outset, it seems strange that anyone would really be interested enough to log on and check the blog, but we have been so well supported and quite overwhelmed by human kindness, that this seems a valid way of saving the family from the trauma and tedium of hearing the same facts (sometimes disturbing) repeated several times daily.

I have secondary melanoma cancer in my lymph system, lungs, liver and spleen and have elected to undergo a course of chemo involving only one of three possible drugs. The statistics show that the results with the combination are no more promising and the side effects of all three are significantly worse. I will have 3 rounds of this chemo with 3 treatments on consecutive days in one week then 2 weeks recovery.

The first 3 treatments were on Tues, Wed and Thursday last week. I had 5 ghastly days of a cosmic hangover with strange effects like a huge visual disturbance, brain fuzz, heavy nausea, body aches, shivers and a return of the pain around surgical areas.

I'm competely well again now, which makes me feel I should really live for ever. The doctor has said that my sound medical history and general robust health stand much in my favour.

Round 2 is on Tues 29, Wed 30, Thurs 1. I have been warned that it will be worse.

I'm taking lots of homeopathic builders inbetween.

I'm so happy to have the children home. Nic from Bangladesh, James from UCT and Ali's on school holidays. The house is full of positive energy and everyone is purposeful (and sleepy in the mornings).

Mauritius calls. We've managed to adjust the dates of this lovely holiday, (which we booked and paid for before the latest test results) so that it fits inbetween chemo rounds. We leave on Saturday, not a moment too soon. Having been lucky enough to have been before, we're all anticipating the holiday with much delight. I can't see any reason why it shouldn't be wonderful.

Thanks for your tangible prayers and generous support.

11 comments:

  1. Hi Margi

    Wote a long comment but don't think I was signed on...hopefully I am now. We're off to Madikwe (and I'm messing about on computers) so quick note to wish you and your family bon voyage and a specially blessed time together.

    See you week after next.
    Viv

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  2. Very impressed with setting up your blog so quickly. Bon Voyage have a brilliant holiday in that little island of paradise. Lots of love to all of you Pix xxxx

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  3. Dear Margi

    Also, very impressed with the blog:)

    Have a brilliant time in Mauritius with your wonderful family, i spent a great 3 weeks there in 2007!

    You will all continue to be in my prayers!
    Till soon,
    lots of love
    Hannah

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  4. Dearest Margi
    Well done on setting up a blog - brilliant idea. Thinking of you and the family sooo much and many prayers.
    Great that you guys are going to Mauritius - hope you have a wonderful time.
    I am off to Zim next week - starting my new job. I was in Malawi last week meeting customers there. Interesting meetings and lovely people.
    Then doing the Knysna mtn bike challenge in July phew!!!
    So lovely to see all 3 of your beautiful children last weekend - when I dropped Chris and Matt to spend a bit of time with Ali.
    Sending you lots and lots of love
    Megxx

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  5. Wishing you blue skies,warm sea and soft sand......INDULGE & ENJOY.
    Antoine Delaporte emailed me yesterday to say it would be a pleasure to see you if you want to meet the 'locals'! they there for you if you want/need them ALL OUR LOVE xxxxxxx

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  6. Hi Margs,

    Not too good at this 'blogging' business - have always wanted to know how to go about it and now I do!! (well learning!)As I sit here in Nice overlooking beautiful blue blue seas, eating delicious sea food and feeling thoroughly relaxed and calm, I think of you, Tim, Nicola, James and Al doing the same. Have a wonderful special time together and speak soon. Lots of love Suzie xxxxx

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  7. Hi Margs and Bashalls
    Hope Mauritius was good for the soul. You are continually in our thoughts and anything you need just shout. Think blog really good idea although, like you new territory for me!!!
    Over soccered here, but hooked nonetheless with this amazing event.
    Lotsa Luv
    Jane and Landeys

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  8. My dearest Margi
    I have been posted this from Tes. Just to say am thinking of you all and Mauritius is a wonderful place to be right now for you. Remember we are all here for you Edwards/Hadfield/Bremners - we are all your extended family xx let me know if there is anything I can do for you in Cape Town xxx My prayers are with you all.

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  9. Dearest Margi

    Thank you for setting up your blog site. (It will be another learning curve for me!) You are often in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you, Tim, Nicola,James and Ali a peaceful holiday in Paradise - one that will feed your souls! Bon Voyage!!! Sending you lots of love, Jacks.

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  10. Hello Margi . Positive thoughts and prayers are coming from afar . Lots of love Anne and Willy Sussman (hall) and June and Sid

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  11. Hi Sweetness! Hope you all had a fantastic time in the tropics. This time last year you were here - and now it is just cold and miserable in Melbourne - need those big Oakley coats!

    In our thoughts and prayers constantly darling friend.

    Lots of love to All Bashalls, and extra to gorgeous Godson!
    Trishiiiiixxxxx

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